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- Anvil Club in Los Angeles
- Male only. Club membership required. 21+
- One party every two months as listed on the website.
- Advanced tickets required and are available online only. No tickets sold at the door. $30
- AVALifestyles in Lancaster
- monthly socials and many alternative lifestyle functions as announced on their Yahoo Group and email list.
- Avatar
- Holds one party a year, on dates announced. Primarily gay male. Parties are open to all. 21+
- Bastille
- Holds Friday night "Eat & Beat" 8:00 PM to 2:00 AM, and Sunday afternoon "BBQ Whippings" 1:00 PM to 7:00 PM on days that are announced on their Yahoo group. Also on Dec 4, 2010 there is a swap meet. 18+
- The location of this dungeon in Long Beach is given to those who join the Yahoo group and RSVP for an event.
- $20 per person
- BDSM West
- Due to the closure of the Palatial Mansion where this group used to have their parties these parties are on hold. I expect them to resume when they find another place to have them.
- Den of Iniquity, The
- Website membership is required to attend. Memberships are $21.95 per month plus a $34.95 one time charge. I do not know how often these are at this time. They are announced on the Den of Iniquities Calendar.
- Fetish Noir
- Every third Friday in North Hollywood. This is a combined workshop and party event. Membership is not required to attend. At this time their website does not appear to be online. Information is available on their Facebook account.
$15 for non members $10 for anyone with CPR certification.
- Footnight in Garden Grove
- Held on a Thursday 8:00 PM - 1:00 AM. How often these are is unknown by me at this time.
- $65 per person.
- This is a foot worship party.
- Lair De Sade
- Holds parties every first and third Friday and every Saturday 9:00PM until ?. Doors close at 11:00PM 21+
- Arrivals after 11:00 PM can call the Lair de Sade cell phone to get in: 818-255-5507
- $30 for members and their guests. All guests must be accompanied by a member.
- Platinum memberships are $50 a month and include access to all Lair de Sade events at no additional charge.
- Holds the "Spanking Social" every first Wednesday, 7:00 PM to 10:00 PM, $5 members, $10 nonmembers
- Every Saturday ~ UNFETTERED ~ Pansexual BDSM Party.
- Every First Friday ~ CONQUEST ~ Couples/Triads Only Party w/ Male Top/female bottom scenes only.
- Every Third Friday ~ VENUS ~ Couples/Triads Only Party with Female Top/male or female bottom scenes only.
- Located in North Hollywood. Map
- Memberships are available at their Insight workshop events. To attend an Insight event you must either be a guest of a member or have gotten an invitation in advance. To request an invitation: ccincbdsm@aol.com
- Basic lifetime membership is a one time fee of $40. Parties are $20 for basic members. Other memberships are available.
- Get on Lair De Sade's email list at the Yahoo LairDeSade_INSIGHT group.
- At Lair De Sade there is a main outdoor area connecting the main entrance and the three dungeon areas. This area is a smoking area and cannot be avoided. Expect exposure to cigarette smoke
- Laptop
- Spanking parties in Oxnard.
- Los Angeles Doms and Subs - LADs
- Holds Tea Parties and Dungeon Parties on dates that are announced.
- Female dominants and submissives and slaves of all genders (including males, female and TGs) are accepted. All switches are accepted, but male switches must be submissive at LADs.
- Mistress Jordan's of Jordan Enterprises Inc. Party at Dragon's Gate Studios 18+
- Once monthly on Saturdays that are announced, 8:00PM to 1:00AM
- $40 per single male, $20 per single female, $50 per couple.
- RSVP required by the day before the party. There is a limit of 75 people.
- The location of the Dragon's Gate Studios in Placentia is given only to those who RSVP.
- To get on the email list: Jeidom AT aol DOT com
- Moonburn
- The first Saturday of every month 2:00PM to 6:00PM.
- Men's spanking parties. Gay male only.
- Contact Chief10611@aol.com for info.
- Phoenix Alternative Community - PAC
- Located in the Inland Empire.
- They have two Yahoo Groups: PhoenixAltCom, and PhoenixAltCommunity
- This club is undergoing a change in leadership. Their website has disappeared. Currently there are no scheduled events. The future of PAC is uncertain.
- Realities held by The Gathering 21+
- Due to the closure of the Palatial Mansion these parties are on hold.
- $20 Members, $30 Non Members.
- Sanctuary LAX in Lennox map 18+
- Formerly known as "Passive Arts."
- Grand opening party is scheduled for Saturday May 15, 9:00 PM.
- How often the parties will be after this is unknown by me at this time
- $10, $5.00 of which will be donated to the Travel Fund of Mr. Los Angeles Leather Leo Triarte for his upcoming trip to Chicago to represent Los Angeles at International Mr. Leather.
- Sanctuary LAX is the domain of Mistress Cyan. Announcements are posted on her Yahoo group.
- Sanctuary SFV Parties
- Fridays in January through March. Saturdays the rest of the year.
- On rare occasion there are weeks Sanctuary SFV parties are not held or held on Friday when it is normaly on a Saturday
- Mistress Cyan's announcement about Friday parties
- $20 per person $30 per couple at the door.
- The location in Reseda is given to invited guests. For invitations contact Mistress Cyan: mistresscyan@yahoo.com
- Announcements concerning it are posted at Sanctuary's Yahoo Group.
- Mistress Cyan's Website
- Semi-Annual Open Fem Domme Party
- Twice a year at Dragon's Gate Studios. Advances RSVP requried.
- Jointly sponsored by: SoCalBound and San Diego FemDomme Social
- $25 per person 8:00 PM - 2:00 AM.
- Slave Pit
at Sanctuary
- Once monthly on Thursdays that are announced, 8:00 PM to 1:30AM.
- The location of the Sanctuary SFV in Reseda is given only to those who RSVP.
- Members only. Memberships are free and are given upon arrival at the party.
- Females Free, $50 per couple, $100 for submissive male and include $40 in tokens to tip the Mistresses of your choice for sessions. I do not know about single male Tops.
- SoCA Bondage Club in North Hollywood
- Every 2nd Friday 9:00 PM to 1:00 AM
- $10 per person at the door.
- Men only. Primarily gay male.
- To Rsvp: socabc@gmail.com
- SoCal Shibari
- This group is primarily in San Diego but has recently begun having events in Temecula to be more accessible to people from the LA Area. Temecula is half way between the Inland Empire (in the greater LA area) and San Diego along Freeway 15. This is a small group that has its events in private homes. Its emphasis is education in japanese rope bondage and has workshops and parties
- Southern California Leather Woman
- This is an annual contest where the Southern "California Leather Woman" is chosen. It is held the first weekend of October at locations that are announced on their website.
- A dungeon party folows this event.
- Paddlers of Southern California (PSC)
- Events held in Riverside.
- A workshop and party often follow their munches every second Saturday.
- Shadow Lane
- This club specializes in very large spanking only parties at major resorts.
- Taster
- This is a day of workshops in a variety of subjects. It is organized by OCLA and held as a substitute for the Sampler in those years there isn't a Sampler.
- Yard LA
- Gay male only.
- In West Los Angeles. The first party is on Nov 22, 2008 9:00PM. How often they will be is unkown by me at this time.
- $30 online or $40 at the door.
These are fetish themed events at disco nightclubs where SM play is staged and play by public for both Tops and bottoms is welcomed as well. Because these are public events no nudity is allowed at any them. The rules on the amount of required coverage varies. If in doubt you should ask the nightclub's promoters. Generally the rules are about the same as on the beach. Some clubs are worse than others in regards to sound levels. It is generally wise to have both earplugs and nutrients as counter measures against damage to hearing due to sound levels when attending them.
Thefts of equipment at these events happen often. Night Clubs are attended by all kinds of people, not just people active in the kink community who are generally far more trustworthy. Anything not kept on your person or closely watched over is at risk and is best kept out of sight in luggage or locked up.
Because these are nightclubs it is inevitable there will be bottoms that have had a few alcoholic drinks before play. I have come across bottoms about to have their first BDSM experience not want to play until they have had a drink or two. Recommendations on my part to have them afterwards never were accepted by them. I have yet to see this as a problem for Tops because the vast majority of the Tops that go to these clubs to play are very experienced and know better. Alcohol and BDSM play do not mix. The bottoming experience is about feeling and enjoying sensations the Top provides. This is lessened when a bottom is numbed to it by alcohol. There is also a safety issue because it is important for a bottom to know what is being received. If a bottom appears to be under the influence by personality, wobbly walking, or breath smell, it is best to tell them to try it some other evening.
Some of these nightclubs have webpages where free or discount passes are available. These are easily printed without the rest of the webpage they are in by right clicking the image that is the pass and selecting the "Print Image" item in the pop up menu. If you are not using the MS Internet Explorer there may be a "View Image" menu item. In this case select it and the image will appear alone in a new browser window where it can be printed.
- Eagle LA
- Several events weekly. Primarily gay male.
- Faultline, The near Melrose and Vermont in Los Angeles
- Has special play events as announced on the website.
- Primarily Gay Male.
- Hollywood and Bind in North Hollywood 21+
- Every first Friday 9:00PM - 2:00AM. Debuts Friday April 1, 2011
- $20 With fetish wear, $25 creative wear, $40 for formal wear (tuxedos, etc.). Can be paid in advance on their website or at the door. Admisison fees are the same at the door.
- Fetish dress code will be strictly enforced. Definitions of fetish wear for this event:
FETISH-EROTIC & ALTERNATIVE FASHION
Latex, leather, PVC, Vinyl, nylon/spandex, uniforms, vintage & period costumes, lolita, burlesque, steampunk, zentai, elegant gothic aristocrat (corsets, fishnet, velvet, vampire etc), medical, chain mail, body armor, kinky drag, cyber, bondage, and other subculture expressions.
NON FETISH (BUT CREATIVE) DISPLAYS OF PERSONAL EXPRESSION
Glam Fabulous, Punk, Rockabilly, Mod, Ero Kawaii, etc.
ULTRA FORMAL ATTIRE
Tuxedos.
ABSOLUTELY NOT PERMITTED
Jeans, street clothes, cotton, white sneakers, t-shirts, etc.
- Kinky Karaoki at the Bullet Bar
- Mondays 8:00 PM - 1:00 AM in North Hollywood
- Gay Male Only
A slave auction is an event where the right to a play session with a bottom is sold to the highest bidder. Although these are always called "Slave Auctions" it frequently happens that Tops get on the auction block as well and it is the bottoms that do the bidding. Any limits a bottom has as to what is done at play are respected and usually given before the auction. The currency used to bid with varies from event to event.
- Mistress Cyan's Slave Auctions
- Held a week or two before Thanksgiving and again a week or two before Christmas. Others may be held at other times in the year as announced. At the one before Thanksgiving the currency is a voucher the value of which is determined by food donated to charity. At the one before Christmas it is toys donated to charity. These exchanges for vouchers are done at the event just before the auction. The donations can also be made in advance by delivering to Mistress Cyan's dungeon in Reseda. When Mistress Cyan makes the deliveries to the charitable organizations she lets them know it came from the fetish community.
- The value of the voucher is determined by how much has been spent on toys or food. It is best to bring the receipt for what you have spent. Vouchers can also be gotten in exchange for cash donated at the auction.
- In the year 2009, there was also a slave auction on April 18. Everyone attending chose an envelope. Each envelope contained a voucher for "auction money" to purchase a slave for the evening of play. Those who wanted to acquire additional "auction money" were be able to do so at a rate of 10 auction dollars for every real dollar). Whether this will be a yearly event in April is unknown by me at this time.
- In the past the auctions were usually held at Dragon's Gate Studios in Placentia. Now they are held at Sanctuary LAX in Lennox.
- The slave auctions are announced at her Yahoo Group and the Sanctuary LAX Website's Events Page.
- Dragon's Gate Studios is the domain of Mistress Jordan
- Mistress Cyan's 2011 Christmas Slave Auction Announcement for Dec 10.
- Slave Auction Photos
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These clubs hold workshops in BDSM play technique.
- Avatar
- Jan - Oct every fourth Wednesday, Nov and Dec, every second Wednesday 8:30 PM to 10:00 PM at MCC of the Valley in North Hollywood. Map 21+
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- Also hosts the "Leather Lab" workshops usually on the first Saturday. Days and times for leather lab change often. See their web site for the latest information. Leather lab is hands on oriented. There is an emphasis in doing what is being taught rather than passively watching a demonstration. It is a good idea to bring a partner. But if you haven't you will be paired up with someone.
- Avatar is primarily gay male. The Leather Labs are open to males only. The Wednesday evening workshops are open to all.
- The Wednesday workshops are $5 Suggested donation. No one is turned away for lack of funds.
The Leather Labs are $30.
- Bound Los Angeles in Van Nuys
- First event is March 20th, 2010. How often these will be is unknown by me at this time.
- An afternoon of rope bondage instruction followed by a play party.
- $40, A donation of $10 for the dungeon party requested.
- C M Hurt in Garden Grove
- Once a month on a Friday at 8:00PM for a year begining in January. Participants are expected to commit to attending all classes for one year. The classes have an emphasis on hands on doing what is taught. For more information and to enroll contact Mistress Cynthia.
- $25 per class.
- Catherine Gross
- Holds workshops in many cities in the USA including Los Angeles. Some events last entire weekends.
- Den of Iniquity, The
- Primarily Pro Dom female. Males are welcome to watch (audit). These classes emphasize learning by doing.
- Every first Thursday 7:00 PM to 11:00 PM
- Located in the Los Angeles area. The exact location is given to those who register.
- $40 for single men, $60 for couples and free for single, no pro women and Pro-Dommes renters. Non - Den of Iniquity Pro-dommes $20
- The topic is announced on the Den of Iniquity's Calendar.
- Dominant Dominion
- Workshops have not started yet but are planned. I do not know how active this group is. Their Yahoo Group gets a few legitimate posts but is also heavily spammed.
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Fetish Noir
- Every third Friday in North Hollywood. This is a combined workshop and party event. Membership is not required to attend. At this time their website does not appear to be online. Information is available on their Facebook account.
$15 for non members $10 for anyone with CPR certification.
- Insight at Lair De Sade
- Every first and third Saturday. 1:00 PM to 5:00 PM
- Located in North Hollywood. Map 21+
- $10 per person.
- Insight events are for members, guests of members, and non members who have received and invitation. To request an invitation: ccincbdsm@aol.com.
- Memberships are available at Insight events.
- At Lair De Sade there is a main outdoor area connecting the main entrance and the three dungeon areas. This area is a smoking area and cannot be avoided. Expect exposure to cigarette smoke.
- Los Angeles Doms and subs, L.A.D.s
- Female Dom only. Male switches are welcome but must be in their submissive roles.
- Has a guest speaker every few months.
- Orange Coast Leather Assembly - OCLA 21+
- There are two events a month at two different locations.
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Every third Tuesday at CM Hurt are the workshops 8:00 PM - 10:00 PM
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- Information: info@ocla.org
- Event announcements are posted on their Yahoo group.
- Paddlers of Southern California (PSC)
- Events held in Riverside.
- A workshop and party often follow their munches every second Saturday.
- Palm Springs Leather Order of the Desert
- Every First Wednesday at 7:00PM in Palm Springs
- Primarily Gay Male
- People of Leather Among You, P.L.A.Y.
- Every second Thursday, 7:30PM at the Metropolitan Community Church of Los Angeles, in Los Feliz Map
- Phoenix Alternative Community - PAC
- Located in the Inland Empire.
- They have two Yahoo Groups: PhoenixAltCom, and PhoenixAltCommunity
- This club is undergoing a change in leadership. Their website has disappeared. Currently there are no scheduled events. The future of PAC is uncertain.
- Pleasure Chest
- This is a retail store on Santa Monica Blvd in Los Angeles selling sex toys and BDSM equipment. They have several seminars a month on days and times posted on their website. Follow the "Pleasure Chest Workshop" link on the front page of their website. On this page follow the link to the particular workshop to see where it is held. Not all of them may be held at the Los Angeles store.
- $30
- SoCal Shibari
- This group is primarily in San Diego but has recently begun having events in Temecula to be more accessible to people from the LA Area. Temecula is half way between the Inland Empire (greater LA area) and San Diego along Freeway 15. This is a small group that has its events in private homes. The emphasis is on education in japanese rope bondage. There are workshops and parties.
- Syren
- In Los Angeles.
- 7:00 PM on the Saturdays 7:30 PM on the Thursdays that are announced on their website.
- $35 person.
Town Hall Meetings
The Town Hall Meetings are quarterly meetings about issues of great concern to the BDSM community. They are held on Sunday afternoons every three months on dates that are announced. There is a discussion by a panel of experts with audience participation. The next one is to be held on Jan 20, 2008. Meeting Announcement.
Balls
The music played at these events are just as loud as at nightclubs. The same precautions to protect hearing I give under nightclubs is recommended.
- Bondage Ball
- Once yearly on Halloween weekend at the Boardners nightclub in Hollywood.
- West Coast Fetish Ball and Masquerade
- Annually on the weekend before New Years. The first is held on Friday Dec 28, 2007 9:00PM to 3:00 AM at the Henry Fonda Theater in Hollywood. In addition there is a Pre Party at the Syren Store in Los Angeles on Friday Dec 14, 2007 8:00PM to 12:00AM.
- $20 in advaance of the Ball on Dec 28. Price at the door is unknown by me at this time. If there will be an additional fee for a VIP pass to the play areas is also unknown by me at this time.
- All Fetish Balls that have taken place in the past at the Henry Fonda Theater have put their the play area open to the public in a smoking area. The indications from their most recent announcement is at this one the play areas open to anyone to play at will be distributed at many locations in the theater, so I am not expecting smoke to be a problem.
Bed And Bondage Retreats
These are BDSM lifestyle oriented lodgings with dungeon setups
- LA Stay and Play
- In downtown Los Angeles
Leather Gatherings and Munches
These are social events where no play takes place. At a munch people gather to have a snack or dinner together at a restaurant usually in the evening. A picnic is a day long outdoor event. No BDSM play is allowed at these events because they are in view of the public. Most of them do not allow fetish attire.
- AVALifestyles in Lancaster
- Every 2nd Saturday 6:00PM
- LA Social 21+
- The first Tuesday of the month 7:00 PM in North Hollywood.
- Karaoke starts at 9:00 PM.
- Long Beach Kinksters
- Every 4th Wednesday in Stanton.
- 7:00 PM to 9:30 PM
- Los Angeles Brothers In Dominance - LABID
- A male-oriented support group catering to issues of concern and interest to Dominants in the greater Los Angeles area. The intent of this group will be to hold a monthly meeting wherein Dominants can discuss any range of topics. The topics should be, but are not limited to, Lifestyle related issues.
- Los Angeles Sisters in submission - La_sis
- A female oriented support/social/luncheon group catering to slave/subs and their concerns in the greater Los Angeles area.
- The intent of this group will be to hold a monthly meeting wherein slave/subs can discuss any range of topics. The topics should be but are not limited to lifestyle issues.
- This group is for anyone out there who believes and actively lives life as a female slave/sub.
- Los Angeles Leather Coalition Fund Raisers
- Leather related fund raising events are held from time to time as announced on their website.
- They will have a screening of the Rocky Horror Picture Show on Friday May 18, 2007 at 8:00PM. See their website for details.
- Los Angeles Doms and subs, LADs.
- The second Sunday of the month, in the afternoon. Usually around 2pm
- Female dominants and submissives and slaves of all genders (including males, female and TGs) are accepted. All switches are accepted, but male switches must be submissive at LADs.
- OC Social
- Every fourth Wednesday in Stanton, 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
- Paddlers of Southern California (PSC)
- Every Second Saturday 3:00 PM in Riverside.
- This group also has workshops and parties that often follow their munches.
- Pasadena Munch Bunch
- Rose Garden San Fernando Valley Munch
- Every 2nd Tuesday 7:30 PM in North Hollywood
- South Bay Munch
- Every 2nd Tuesday and 4th Thursday in Torrance
- Southern California Leather Gathering
- A yearly event in late June at the Whittier Narrows Recreation Area in South El Monte.
- Torrance/South Bay Social
- Held every other week. RSVP to Nathok@aol.com or RICHARDLHIGHT@aol.com
- West Coast Social
- Every second Thursday 8:00pm - 11:00pm at Lair de Sade in North Hollywood map 18+
- $5 at the door. RSVP requested but not required. RSVP information is on the website.
- This is a social gathering.
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- Bat Pack Talent
- This is a talent agency specializing in gothic types. Hollywood film producers often look for extras with a gothic or BDSM fetish look.
- Mistress Cyan
- Mistress Cyan is always seeking bondage and fetish models for her website.
Flea Markets and Vendor Fairs
This is a listing of events oriented towards sales of fetish equipment. Guest speakers, demonstrations, and shows usually accompany this events.
Brick and Mortar Fetish Shops
These are brick and mortar shops selling BDSM play equipment.
- Crypt, The
- 1712 E. Broadway, Long Beach, (562) 983-6560
- Pleasure Chest, The
- In West Hollywood on Santa Monica near Fairfax
- Pleasure Company, The
- In Irvine on Red Hill near Main Street
- Rough Trade
- 3915 Sunset Blvd, Los Angeles, (323) 660-7956
- Mr S Leather and Fetters
- In Hollywood on Melrose near Vermont
- Syren
- In West Hollywood on Beverly Blvd near La Brea
- 665 Leather
- In West Hollywood on Santa Monica Blvd between San Vicente Blvd and La Cienega Blvd
Vanilla Events
Vanilla is a term used to refer to non kinky "normal" people. Although the events listed here are vanilla events they are listed because they attract kinky people. No or very light and mild BDSM play takes place at these events.
- Belegarth Medievil Combat Society at the University of Irvine.
- Buccaneer's Day in Two Harbors, Catalina Island
- Officially the first Saturday in October. The partying in costume starts the Friday evening before.
- This is a day when yachtsmen and all others that can make it there by ferry dress and party as pirates.
- There is a live band and later a DJ at the outdoor dance floor at the Harbor Reef Restaurant. Be sure to get your passport on arrival or the children might put you in the Hoosegow.
- There are two restaurants in Two Harbors. There is the "Snack Bar" open most of the day. This is a cafeteria that also grills items to order. The other is the "Harbor Reef Restaurant." This is fine dining and opens in the late afternoon. The Harbor Reef Restaurant books up quickly for Buccaneer's Day. It is best to reserve by phone two days in advance of your arrival. If you have not phoned in advance, reservations can also be done in the Snack Bar before the Harbor Reef Restaurant opens and should be done there as soon as you arrive.
- The campsites and the one hotel at Two Harbors book up one year prior to this event. Booking is best done on the day of the event for the next year in person at the Two Harbors office. My experience has been that the Monday after the event is already too late. For those who have arrived without reservations sometimes there are cancellations or no shows for the campsites. Otherwise there is overflow camping in Buffalo Park. This is a playground behind the Harbor Reef Restaurant. None of these last two possibilities are to be counted on so if you are going there without reservations it is best to have a precautionary return ticket on the ferry that evening. The Catalina Express has a special late ferry for this event and they allow ticket changes for $5.
- The demand for overflow camping in Buffalo Park for this event has increased dramatically in the past several years. In 2007 there were just three tents there. In 2009 there were about 200. It has become like a tent city, and unfortunately, with this growth has come big city crime. The Two Harbors management was expecting this and beefed up the presence of the Sheriff's Department and police. In spite of this there were thefts of camping equipment, especially sleeping bags. Luggage left in or outside tents was riffled through and items such as cameras stolen. In the case of the sleeping bags the thief was caught when the victims recognized their gear when tents were being taken down Sunday morning. At about 3 AM there was a disturbance caused by people at a tent that caused the sheriff to send them home at that hour of the night via the sheriff's boat.
- To attend this event there is a need for luggage locks on all luggage and zippers on tent doors. Without these it is certainty thieves will get into both.
- Normally it is possible to rent tents and sleeping bags from the Two Harbors Rangers. In 2009 there was a decision by Two Harbors management not to rent anything on Buccaneer's Day. It is now necessary to bring your own camping gear to this event.
- It used to be that Buccaneer's Day was mostly attended by well mannered and wealthy yachtsmen. This has changed. In 2009 a waitress was mugged for her tips by four women in gothic attire while she was on her way home after the bar closed at 1:30 AM. They were arrested. Sunday afternoon a woman went berserk in the bar and threw her food all over the place. She was kicked out. After that she and another woman assaulted a women who was asleep in the grass while waiting for her ferry. She was straight punched to the face. This was a random act, the assailants did not know their victim. The two assailants were quickly pulled away by a group of onlookers. The assailants were banned from the ferry and required to wait for the sheriffs to arrive who were elsewhere on the island at the time.
- Most of Catalina Island is privately owned by the Santa Catalina Island Conservancy. They maintain a blacklist of people who have been trouble makers. Anyone on this blacklist is banned from the island and cannot buy a ferry ticket in their name. There are many who were added to this list on Buccaneer's Day in 2009.
- Translate your text into Pirate Talk with this filter.
- How to talk like a pirate web pages:
- Why talk like a pirate and how
- How To Talk Like A Pirate
- A Pirate's Vocabulary
- The Brethren of the Coast - History, Sea Shanties and more.
- Local Pirate Group: No Quarter Given
- Renaissance Faire, Santa Fe Dam Recreational Area, Irwindale.
- All weekend days from the beginning April to mid May.
- Discount coupons and advance tickets are available at the website.
- There are many other Renaissance Faires throughout the year in Southern California. But this one is the big one. Many people in the Fetish Community are involved in it as Faire Staff, or working in the vendor booths, and especially actors up to the highest level. Information about the other faires, and Renaissance Faires in general, is available here
- Rocky Horror Picture Shows
- Sins O' Flesh
- Midnight Insanity
- Wild and Untammed Things
- Sunday Parties at Gemini Manor in Hollywood Map
- Held once a month on most months on Sundays at 8:00 PM on dates that are announced on the website.
- There are also special event parties that can be held on Fridays and Saturdays at various times through out the year. An event calendar is on its web site.
- Well attended by people in the Hollywood Entertainment industry, including musicians who perform in the sing alongs.
- Location Info and Email List: Alexander Lehr (323) 666-7888 geminimanor@earthlink.com
- More About Gemini Manor
- If you have already been on this list for the Sunday Salon parties and still want to be on it you must request to be put on it again. Alex has lost his email list due to a computer virus.
- Sunset Junction Street Festival
- Every fourth weekend of August.
Conventions and Weekend Events
These are weekend events consisting of workshops in play technique throughout the day and dungeon parties in the evening. There usually is also an area for vendors to set up. Vendors from all over the country and even the world will vend at the major ones.
- Camp Spanky, in Winchester.
- $25 for the weekend.
- A privately owned primitive campground where BDSM players camp and play the weekend.
- Attendees pitch their own tents. To shower it is best to bring your own solar shower bag.
- Announcements concerning this event are posted at their Yahoo Group. To view their events follow the Calendar link to the left and click on the "Event Lists" tab.
The exact location of Camp Spanky is given to those who RSVP through the Yahoo Group.
- Desire in Palm Springs
- Yearly around May or June. A women's only event held in a private resort in Palm Springs. These weekend has is very much like the OCLA Sampler and was inspired by it at its start.
- DomCon LA, CA
- Yearly around April or May.
- A weekend of seminars and dungeon parties.
- This event is organized and managed by Mistress Cyan
- Dom Boot Camp and submissive's Survival Course
- Every few months either at Lair de Sade in North Hollywood (map), or at Dragon's Gate Studios in Placentia as announced on their Yahoo Group and their website. When it is held at Dragon's Gate Studios the exact location is given to those that register.
- $250 per Dom Boot Camp person, $75 for Submissive Survival Course person, and $300 per Dominant/submissive couple where one goes to Dom Boot Camp and the other to the Submissive Survival Course.
- Dom Boot Camp Training includes: "The Dominant Mindset", "How to Connect With The Submissive", "Setting The Scene", "Scene Etiquette", "Safety", "Cleaning Tools and Toys", and "Aftercare and First Aid"
- You will receive instruction, personal coaching, and real-time "hands on" practice in "Scene Negotiation", "Bare Hand Spanking", "Basic Rope Selection and Bondage", "Flogging", "Canes and Paddles", "Clamps and Clothespins", and "How to Get the submissive You Want".
- Single day workshops are also held more often by BDSM Mentors. These are called "Special Ops Training."
- Erotic City
- Takes place yearly in early June at Los Angeles Pride. This is a dungeon set up with demonstrations as part of Los Angeles Pride. Erotic City's webpage at Los Angeles Pride.
- $5 to for Friday Night's Carnal Carnival
- $20 Online and $25 at the gate for general admission to Los Angeles Pride and its Erotic City during the day Saturday and Sunday.
- Internatioanal Olympus Leather
- A yearly event the first or second weelend of August near the Los Angeles Airport. 3 Days. This is the event where the "Mr. & Ms International Olympus Leather Contest" is held.
- LA Leather Weekend
- This is a yearly event the first weekend in April held by the Los Angeles Leather Coalition.
- LA Leather Pride weekend, featuring a Leather Roller Skating Night, Southland Honors, Workshops, Mr. LA Leather Contest, and L.A. Streetfest. Contestant Speeches. Held annually the first weekend in April. Events at various locations.
- Los Angeles Kink Ball
- This event takes place for the first time on President's Weekend Feb 16, 17, 18, 2007. Whether this will be a yearly event is unknown by me at this time.
- The events take place at various locations in the Hollywood area and near downtown Los Angeles.
- Palm Springs Leather Weekend
- Once yearly in early November. The dates for 2006 are Nov 9-12.
- Primarily Gay Male
- Leather + Kink + Dance + Vendors + Seminars + BBQ + Pool Party Cruising Hot Men + Skin + Raunchy + Sizzling + More Men
- This is a Palm Springs Leather Order of the Desert event.
- Sampler
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Held once yearly in mid to late October in a resort in Palm Springs. An entire resort is taken over for this weekend event.
The Sampler offers each participant two one hour private one on one workshops in the presenters room in the resort. If you bring your own submissive the two of you are entitled to a total of four. The emphasis here is in learning by doing so it is best to bring a submissive to the workshop. If you do not own your own a volunteer male submissive is usually available (female volunteers will not be likely.) In addition to these one on one workshops there are group workshops as well.
The Sampler is also a dungeon party on the common grounds of the resort that starts in the early morning and lasts until the late evening. Dungeon furniture is set up on the common grounds of the resort. When not used in workshops they are available to the Sampler attendees.
Usually every room in the resort is assigned to a presenter and the attendees stay in hotels nearby. In some years there are rooms for attendees at the resort where it is held as well.
The Sampler is an OCLA event. Information about it is available at their website and also their Yahoo Group.
- The Sampler isn't held every year. During those years there isn't one the "Taster" is the subsitute event.
- Seaside Swats
- The last weekend in April in Oxnard.
- A weekend spanking party.
- Servant's Retreat
- Held many times during the year in different cities including Los Angeles. Schedule
- A weekend of "who we are" training for servants/bottoms/slaves/boys/girls
- The location in the Los Angeles area is given to those who register.
- Rope Dojo with Midori
- Cost: $300 for Singles, $500 for Pairs. (No single day tickets available.)
- Limited to 28 people
- The location between Korea Town and downtown Los Angeles is given to those who register.
- Rubber Ball in Arcadia 18+
- Once a yearly on Labor Day. $10 per person.
- A night club event where dress incorporating bondage is in the dress code.
- There has been BDSM play with Mistress Cyan present at past Rubber Balls. But for now there cannot be any for as long as it is held at the ABC due to zoning issues. The promotors are looking for another place to have it. Meanwhile there will be no BDSM play at the Rubber Ball for as long as it is held at the ABC.
- Stars and Stripes
- Held yearly on the Fourth of July weekend.
- Organized by the Los Angeles Boys of Leather. Gay Male Only
- West Coast Rubber Weekend
- Yearly on Labor Day Weekend in Palm Springs
- A weekend dedicated to hot, kinky as hell fetishists from around the globe. Rubber, spandex, dive gear, bdsm - it's all on for this event. Primarily Gay Male.
Other Sites With LA Fetish Scene Webpages
- Avatar
- Has a newsletter that regularly lists other clubs and events besides their own.
- BDSM_West Yahoo Group
- Has a calendar of events for parties, club meetings, and workshops. This Group is owned by owners of the Passive Arts Studio.
- Caryl's BDSM Page
- Lady Badger
- Lady Badger emails a weekly newsletter that lists Southern California events from her Yahoo SoCalSMEvents group.
- Collar Chat's Upcoming Events
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